They will ignore you now.But trust me, they will need you later.

If someone only talks to you when they need something drop them as a friend, cause they were never yours. ♥️๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ


We come across these people in all stages of our lives and they need to be dealt with as soon and as effectively as possible.๐Ÿ˜–


I have mentioned below a two step procedure which would be beneficial to carry out, before taking the action of throwing out these parasites out of your life for good.⬇️


Identify - First of all, you need to recognize those people who turn to you only for favours and disappear otherwise. Identify by sensing a pattern in their behaviour and draw a parallelism between their needs and its influence in the change of their attitude towards you for personal benefits.


Ask them for a favour (which is in their reach) - If they willingly help you, then it might be that you’re their “go-to-person” and though they have failed to maintain a constant contact with you, they value your bond and would be there for you in the hour of need. They expect the same from you in return and hence turn to you when they need help.


Now, even after these steps, if the person falls under your list of the ‘people who want to use you for their own good’, you learn to say ‘No’.๐Ÿ™Œ


You need to realize that these selfish, materialistic gold diggers harm you in more than a single way and you need to put an end to it. Be firm but not rude. Be assertive and refuse to give in to their requests.๐Ÿค™


They would slowly realize that you are of no use to them anymore and drift away on their predatory mission to find a new provider scapegoat.๐Ÿ˜ฌ


To your success 

@entrepreneurideology 

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